“Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.” – Mandy Hale
What is the story that you are telling yourself about your life?
The story that you are telling yourself is the one that you end up living. If you are constantly telling yourself that you will be a failure, I hate to break it to you but chances are you will be a failure.
You have free will, you have the ability to make decisions and steer your life in the way that you want it to go in. Stop wasting your time veering off the road onto the dirt when you have a paved road in front of you. Or you may need to get off the dirt or possibly even out of the ditch and get back on the road.
A positive mindset can lead to a positive life, your thoughts lead your actions, and your actions lead your life. Feed your thoughts, actions, and life with uplifting and encouraging words, people, music, books, whatever it is you need to succeed.
Go after the life that you want to live instead of feeling like a failure and like you have to sit on the sidelines. You are not a sidekick you are the main character, and it is time to start acting like one.